Using a butt plug during sex can help increase the pleasure for men and women. However, anal sex can be risky and even painful when not done correctly. Therefore, it is vital to learn how to properly use a butt plug before doing anything. Otherwise, you may experience a nightmare situation that stops you from returning. When the butt plug is used correctly, it can be safe and fun. It will add pleasure and excitement to the experience.

Furthermore, a butt plug is essential for preparing for any form of anal sex with your partner. Below, readers will learn how to use a butt plug safely.

Appropriate Size

First, the goal is to pick a suitable butt plug. Some are too big for new users. If you choose a massive butt plug, it’s going to cause discomfort. Instead, newcomers should always choose a small butt plug until they’re ready for something bigger. Pornstars from 90s content used smaller butt plugs throughout the day to prepare for scenes involving anal sex. Going too large can immediately backfire and result in pain and a reluctance to experiment with anal in the future.

Butt plugs can be purchased at local sex shops, but you can also purchase them more discreetly online.

Material

Make sure you pick the right material. For starters, the plug should have an extended, wide, or flared base. This ensures that the plug will fit into the anus without going too deep. Otherwise, there is a risk that the plug will become lodged and stuck inside the anal cavity. You should also choose a suitable material. Make sure the material is safe for your skin and for internal use.

In general, you should try to choose a silicone butt plug. Alternatively, ABS is a good option. Regardless, choose a safe material that won’t harm you in the future.

Clean First

First, you need to make sure that you’re dealing with a clean work area and a clean anal plug. If there is any bit of dirt or debris, you’re going to run into problems. A dirty anal plug could cause foreign debris to enter your body. That can result in infections and other issues. Instead, you should properly clean everything first. Make sure that the anal area has been thoroughly cleaned with mild soap and warm water.

The anal plug should also be cleaned. Clean both to avoid issues in the future. You may also want to empty your bowels. If you empty them first, you’ll feel better throughout the experience.

Relax and Take Your Time

Butt plugs are an exciting way to spice up any relationship, but you truly have to be in the right mindset to use them. This doesn't just mean that you decide you are going to incorporate them into your relationship and go for it. That would probably be a surefire way to garner negative results. You need to mentally prepare yourself with deep breathing, and sometimes foreplay even helps. As much as you think you are ready for this type of action, you've likely not experienced anything like it, so you need to be mentally prepared.

Lubrication

Just like there is a large selection of anal toys, there is a large selection of lubes. Choosing the right one could make all the difference in the world. The anus does not self-lubricate, which means you are going to need something a little extra here. Spit will work and is a turn-on for some couples, but water-based lubes are much more hygienic. Silicone-based lubes, on the other hand, last much longer and provide an extra layer of cushion. There are also oil-based lubes available with latex condoms, but these tend to damage the material.

Actual Use

It is generally not a good idea to use a butt plug for an extended period of time. Instead, you should use one for short periods to avoid discomfort. Once you’ve become accustomed to wearing a butt plug, you can begin wearing one for longer. However, you must start slow. In general, it’s best to stick with sessions between 15 and 30 minutes. As you become more comfortable with the plug, you can increase the duration by 10 or 15 minutes.

You can also experiment with different positions while wearing the plug.

After Use

After you’ve used the anal plug, you need to clean it thoroughly. It is also a good idea to store the plug in a safe location. Make sure that the plug won’t be exposed to contaminants.